Preparation GUIDE
FOR YOUR COUPLE BOUDOIR EXPERIENCE
Bonjour,
I'm so excited to photograph the two of you, whether in my boudoir studio or at a location of your choice.
This couples boudoir experience is more than a photoshoot. It's a moment to celebrate your connection, your intimacy and your story, whether you're marking an anniversary, honeymooning in Mallorca, or doing this simply because you want to.
I've created this guide to help you both feel fully prepared, relaxed, and excited for your session.
💋Adele Odette x
WHAT TO EXPECT
Your Session Together
From the moment we start, this session is entirely about the two of you. We've designed a seamless, relaxed experience so you feel comfortable, connected and celebrated.
Arrival & Styling: We'll start with a chat to settle any nerves (with a coffee if we're at the studio, or as I set up if we're at your location). You'll show me the outfits you've brought, and we'll choose the looks that best tell your story. (Note: Professional hair and makeup is included with some collections only. If it's part of yours, your arrival time will be confirmed separately. If not, please arrive with hair and makeup ready.)
The Session: Depending on your chosen collection, your session lasts between 30 and 90 minutes, with the outfit changes we've agreed on. Don't worry about "knowing what to do." I will guide and pose you both, and I'll talk you through everything as we go, so you never have to wonder what to do next. You are in safe, expert hands.
The Image Reveal: If your session is at the studio, your image reveal takes place on the same day after a lunch break. If your session is on location, it will take place a few days later via Zoom. This is the most exciting part: seeing your portraits for the first time and selecting the images you love.
What do we WEAR?
It's completely normal to feel a mix of excitement and "closet panic" when thinking about your wardrobe. The most important thing to remember is that we aren't just photographing lingerie; we are photographing the two of you. For her: delicate lace, a structured bodysuit, an oversized white shirt. For him: fitted boxers, well-fitting trousers, a crisp white shirt, or bare-chested. The goal is to choose pieces that make you both feel like the most confident version of yourselves.
To make this easy for you, I’ve curated The Ultimate BOUDOIR WARDROBE Guide. Including where to shop for lingerie in Palma, and an exclusive discount in my favourite boutique.
THE COUNTDOWN
Preparing for Your Session
Preparation is the key to confidence. Follow this simple guide to ensure you arrive feeling (and looking) like the best version of yourself.
3–5 Days Before: The Glow Up
Hydrate: Drink plenty of water to keep your skin looking luminous.
Love Your Body: Please do not feel pressured to "starve yourself" or lose weight. You are beautiful exactly as you are right now. My job is to pose you to highlight your best angles—your job is just to show up!
Mani-Pedi: Your hands and feet will be in the spotlight. I recommend a neutral color or a classic French manicure so your nails don’t distract from your beautiful outfits.
The Rehearsal: Try on your outfits one last time. Ensure you feel secure, confident, and comfortable in every piece.
Gentle Stretching: Start a daily 5-minute stretch focusing on your neck, back, and hamstrings. It will make the "model poses" feel much easier and more fluid!
The Day Before: Soften & Pack
Exfoliate & Moisturize: Gently exfoliate your skin and apply a rich moisturizer. Soft, glowing skin is the best canvas for my lighting.
Pack Your Bag: Double-check your outfits, shoes, and any sentimental accessories (like jewelry or a partner’s shirt) you want to include.
The Big Day: Arrival
Hair & Makeup: If your package includes professional hair and makeup, I'll confirm your arrival time and where our stylist meets you. Arrive with freshly washed and dry hair, cleaned & moisturised face & body. If not, please arrive with hair styled and makeup ready.
The "Touch-Up" Kit: Bring your lipstick, powder, and hairbrush with you so we can do quick retouches between sets.
Wear Loose Clothing: This is a pro-secret! Do not wear a bra, tight underwear, or tight socks to the studio. Tight clothing leaves marks on the skin that can take an hour to disappear. Arrive in a loose sundress or oversized loungewear so your skin is flawless and mark-free for the camera.
What to avoid
No New Tattoos or Piercings: Avoid getting any new body modifications 4 weeks before your session to prevent unwanted marks or irritation.
Say No to Fake Tanning: Spray tans can result in uneven color or orange tones that are hard to fix in photos. Avoid them 2 weeks prior to your session.
Steer Clear of Tight Clothing: On the day of your shoot, avoid wearing tight clothing like bras, socks, or jeans that can leave marks on your skin.
No Binge Drinking or Salty Foods: In the days leading up to your session, avoid alcohol and super salty foods, which can dehydrate your skin and cause bloating.
Don’t Skip Meals! Eat a healthy breakfast the morning of your shoot.
More Intimate Considerations
BODY HAIR
This session is for you, so the choice to remove hair or not is entirely yours. Please know that you won’t be judged regardless of your decision.
If you choose to remove hair:
Waxing: If you decide to wax, please do so 4-5 days prior to your session. This timeframe allows any potential redness or irritation to subside, ensuring you feel comfortable and confident on the day of your shoot.
Shaving: If you prefer to shave, aim to do it the night before. This will help ensure your skin is smooth and ready for photos.
What if I’m on my period?
If you’re lucky enough to have a regular cycle, I encourage you to book your photoshoot during your ovulation phase when you may feel more confident and sexy.
But if your period happens to coincide with your session, don’t panic! We’ll work around it. You can use tampons or a menstrual cup, and we’ll take breaks as needed to ensure you feel good.
Starting the day with some gentle stretching can also help alleviate any discomfort.
Sensual, Not Sexual
Everything in your session is implied, never explicit. Poses can be intimate and suggestive: close embraces, on your knees, kisses, hands on skin, desire in the eyes. But you will never be "in action." This is about connection and sensuality, not sexual content.
I'll keep talking and guiding you throughout the shoot, so you'll always know what's happening and what comes next. And if the moment gets a little heated (it happens, you're in love and looking amazing!), we'll take a short break, laugh it off, and carry on.
Setting Boundaries
This is a safe, professional space, wherever we shoot. I'm here to document your relationship with care, artistry, and full respect for your comfort and privacy. You never need to do anything you're not into. If either of you feels unsure at any moment, just say so and we'll adjust.
If props are a genuine part of your connection, you're welcome to bring simple accessories such as a silk tie or blindfold, whips, etc. You are responsible for bringing them. No sex toys are allowed under any circumstance.
Respect & Consent
Mutual respect is the foundation of every shoot. This is your time to feel seen and celebrated, and in return I ask for respect towards me and my team. If boundaries are not respected, I will end the session on the spot. In that case no photos will be delivered and no refund will be given. I share this only so everything is clear from the start. I'm confident it will never be needed.
Where We'll Shoot
Your session takes place either at my private studio in Palma or on location, wherever you choose: your hotel suite, a yacht, the villa you're staying in. We'll agree on the location together, and I'll confirm all the details before the day.
Body Image
This is a safe space, and I understand it can sometimes be challenging to accept our bodies and be photographed. I'm so proud that you're taking this step together. It's perfectly okay to feel nervous, and most couples start that way. Trust me when I say you'll have lots of fun! I promise you'll feel comfortable to embrace your connection and let yourselves be seen.
Affirmations
We are worthy of being celebrated exactly as we are today.
Our bodies are beautiful, deserving of care and admiration.
We give ourselves permission to enjoy being seen, together.
We are more than a reflection; we are connection, desire, and undeniable chemistry.
We deserve to take up space and capture this moment in time forever.
Keeping Your Memories
Because your images deserve to live beyond a screen, I offer a range of handcrafted products—from silk-bound albums to statement wall art—designed to celebrate your love story every day.
IF YOUR SESSION IS AT MY STUDIO:
Odette Studio
Odette Studio was born from my dream to create a space where women can exhale, where confidence feels quiet and beauty feels real.
Located near Paseo Mallorca, it’s a curated haven of soft light, French elegance, and intimate calm. Every detail, from the textures to the lighting, is designed to make you feel comfortable, seen, and held.
Address: Odette Studio, Carrer Menorca, 1b, 07011 Palma de Mallorca
The Studio is on the first floor, without elevator. The Bell is 1B labelled ‘Odette Studio' - when you arrive, ring the bell, and come up to the first floor, I’ll be welcoming you at the door of the studio. Please arrive at your appointment time.
Parking: the best option is the underground parking of Paseo Mallorca. There’s street blue zone parking but limited to 2 hours which is not enough time.
IF YOUR SESSION IS:
On location
Get the space ready: Please have the room ready to be photographed before I arrive.
Make the bed with clean, smooth sheets (white or neutral bedding works best).
Remove anything you don't want in the frame: suitcases, clothes, bags, toiletries, chargers, cables, bins, and cluttered surfaces.
Tidy the bathroom too if you'd like to use it for a set.
Make sure we won't be disturbed:
Put the "Do Not Disturb" sign on the door and let reception or housekeeping know not to come in during your session.
Let your host, staff, or neighbours know in advance if they normally come by.
Silence your phones and switch off the TV, put your favourite playlist on.
If we're outdoors on a terrace or balcony, choose a spot with privacy where you feel relaxed.
Your Privacy is My Priority
Your photos are 100% confidential. I understand that this is a deeply personal experience, and I want you to feel entirely secure knowing your images are private.
You Are in Control
You decide exactly how—or if—your images are used. At your reveal, you can choose:
No Release: Your images stay strictly between us.
Anonymous Release: I may share "detail" or from the back shots that do not show your face.
Full Release: You allow me to share your beautiful transformation to inspire other women.
“More than a photoshoot, it was a moment. A memory. A different, beautiful way to say "I love you."”
I wasn't sure what to expect. As a man, posing for a boudoir shoot isn't exactly common. But from the very start, I felt at ease. Listened to, respected. Never exposed, just gently and thoughtfully guided.
Adele has this rare gift: she creates a space where you feel seen, not judged.
Doing a couple shoot with my partner added another layer entirely. It wasn't just about capturing beauty, it was about daring to show up, together. There were glances, small gestures, shared silences... and a kind of light that revealed not just bodies, but connection.
Nothing felt forced. It was gentle, organic. More than a photoshoot, it was a moment. A memory. A different, beautiful way to say "I love you."
Cyril & Laurence
Last minute checklist
Hair & Face: Arrive with freshly washed & dried hair, and a clean moisturised face. Ready for professional hair and makeup, if your collection includes it. If not, arrive hair and makeup ready.
Moisturize: Apply moisturizer to your body for a smooth, glowing look.
Clothing: Avoid wearing any tight clothing to prevent marks on your skin.
Timing: Plan for plenty of time for traffic and parking to arrive without stress.
Outfit Preparation: Pack all of your outfits, and don’t forget jewellery, accessories, and shoes. (I have a steamer if anything needs to be freshened up—don’t worry!)
Nails: Ensure your nails are in good shape, and consider a fresh manicure & pedicure or a neutral polish to keep things timeless.
Hydration & Snacks: Drink plenty of water and consider bringing a light snack to keep your energy up.
Personal Items: Bring any items that make you feel confident or relaxed, like a favorite perfume or a little note of encouragement.
Positive Mindset: Take a moment to set your intentions for the day and embrace the excitement!
Post-Session BLISS
After your session, you may feel a mix of exhilaration and fatigue. It's a lot to process! Consider doing some gentle stretches, as you'll likely have tried some new poses that your bodies aren't used to.
Take some time to reflect on your experience together. Think about how you felt during the shoot and how special it was to dedicate this time to each other. I'd love to hear your thoughts, so feel free to message me and share your feelings after this amazing experience.
"The most beautiful thing you can give each other is your full attention."
Everything is in place for your session. I am so ready to photograph you both, for time dedicated entirely to your connection, your chemistry, and a deep, luxurious indulgence in each other.
This isn't just about a camera. It's about how it feels to be fully present with the person you love. We are going to create something breathtaking together.
If you feel a flutter of nerves or have a last-minute question about your styling, I’m just a message away. Reach out to me directly on WhatsApp at +34 690 75 37 63.
Let’s make this an experience you’ll never forget.
💋Adele Odette x